利用者:LyneaKnorr86
Are you fed up with all the nonsense advice you receive from popular female magazines out there? Obviously you are. You and I both realize that they'll rarely give you any valuable ideas that work in the real world. Like a guy with probably much more experience compared to average person In my opinion I can tell you what works, for a change, when it comes to winning over a guy's heart. And no, it's not the general advice: give him space, cook him a pleasant meal and stop nagging all day. Sure, to some extent that works as well:), but let's focus on the Core way to really "conquer" any guy you would like.
The actual method of getting that guy loving you more than imaginable is a simple, 3 letter word. You got it right: Sex. The best way to your heart is through his penis. Whether you want it or otherwise - this is the cold, hard truth.
Did I say to you anything new? Most likely not. But let me elaborate.
A lot of you ladies are completely clueless with regards to sex. You believe that you are "good in bed", or maybe your ex said so, or whatever. But how can you be sure? After being with increased women than I can remember, honestly, the majority of you are lost in space with regards to pleasing a man to the fullest. Sure, you are able to maybe get him to orgasm - but just while he came does not mean it's the very best orgasm he's capable of having.
Every guy has a few different levels of orgasm strength. There is the regular orgasm, then your tiny bit better one - and then, there's earth-shattering, hitting the table and screaming in pleasure that appears like it lasts forever! And many individuals girls have No clue how to get your guy to that particular level.
Should you did - he'd look at you completely differently. You would be unique, the only woman that's able to pleasing him to a mind-blowing level - and, as you probably know, most guys think with their genitals. It's very easy to fall deeply in love with a lady with one of these "magical" skills. And they truly are magical.
So, what I'm saying is the fact that - the only real sure method of getting a man not only crazy about you, but basically sexually addicted to You, is as simple as giving him that third degree of earth-shattering orgasms. Once you can accomplish this, you'll have any guy want eating at restaurants of the hands and doing all things in his power to help you stay.
"Okay, so how do I give him that "third level" of orgasm?" I'm able to already hear some of you asking.
I won't provide you with 173 "new, funky and fresh tips" for pleasing him better during sex, like the magazines do. Instead, I'll give you only 3 actual life tips that really get results. And when this doesn't work - nothing will.
1. Improve your attitude during sex. This is the initial step. When you are during sex together with your guy (and out), you have to have a "pleasing attitude." This means that you have to focus all your focus on satisfying him and making him feel like a King! During sex, treat your guy as though your one and only goal (in everyday life!) would be to please him to the fullest. Possess a more giving personality, and give without expecting anything in exchange.
Basically, if you're ready to do anything whatsoever for the guy during sex - because giving him pleasure ultimately provides you with pleasure - he'll love you for it. Lots of women just jump on the bed and expect the guy to complete everything. You shouldn't be one of those girls (or, cows, how women like that are generally called by guys).
In bed - be flexible, move around, do whatever you can to create him feel amazing. Produce a good atmosphere, talk dirty to him, role play - surprise him with something totally new making it fun, not really a chore. It is essential to shift your thinking from "I'm giving him this and that he ought to be happy they got anything." into "I can't wait to make him scream from pleasure!"
Remember girls, a high level pleaser, men will label you as a "Keeper!" - with a capital "K":)
2. Since you have improved your attitude a bit, the next actual life tip is: blow jobs. Yes, you read it right. Since you made the decision to become much more of a pleaser in bed, what this means is you need to make any fantasy your guy includes a reality. And something of these fantasies are great blow jobs. Every guy wants them above all else. And it's an art that most women lack, so - if you're able to be part of the 10-20% of women that understand how to give amazing blow jobs, it will likely be much easier to conquer any guy. Concentrate on developing this skill by practicing in your guy as much as possible. Surprise him with oral sex whenever feasible and please him towards the better of what you can do.
The important thing here is that you observe his reactions to your skills so that you can read him properly and understand how to adjust your method to the man you're with. Don't be afraid to become as "dirty" as possible. Men want you to become an angel for his or her Mom along with a wh#re during sex. So let go and be free - sexual liberation rules! In terms of blow jobs I'll let you know the fundamentals: talk dirty, love doing the work more than life itself and swallow. Spitters are quitters!
At this point your guy has already been 100 times happier and happy to be with you. Following these pointers can get him to that particular "third level" of orgasm I was referring to (where his eyes come out and the brain freezes).
3. Finally is determining something very important - his brain. Lots of you ladies think that we are robots which anything can turn us on. Well, it cannot. It's not only about your skills or perhaps your technique - what counts is your ability to master your guys emotions. Guys are visual - so that they want to see stuff, you in high heels, having a nice tan, a tight body, sexy thongs, a smile and a nice atmosphere.
Focus on capturing all his senses, because his orgasm occur in his brain. A minimum of - this is where the "third level" orgasms do. To get to that level, you need to master his mind, not only his penis. Mastering the physical facets of sex aren't very difficult, but mastering his emotions, how he feels during sex etc. are a completely different thing. You need to know things to say, and the way to express it. The right words could be magical.
So long as you possess the general guideline of treating him just like a King, you cannot go wrong. Focus on that attitude and you'll see near-instant results of love, love and much more love. Did I mention love?:)
He's your King and you should be his Queen that adores pleasing her "Master" and "Royal Highness." Deny him nothing, provide him everything. And you will get back everything you invest, and much, a lot more. I guarantee you that.